We all encounter individuals who are difficult to handle; they may dislike us or, worse, persistently intrude upon our lives. They seem determined to witness our failure or suffering, poisoning our lives like contaminants in fresh spring water.
So, the million-dollar question is: How do we address this issue? What course of action should we take? Should we attempt to win their favor, persuade them to like us, or demonstrate that we are worthy of their respect?
Our answer is: DON’T!
Simply ignore them, or if it's not feasible to avoid them altogether, minimize your interactions. For instance, with a boss or coworker who harbors animosity toward you, engage with them only when absolutely necessary. If they are on one side of the room, position yourself on the opposite side. Refrain from engaging in their nonsense and keep your distance.
Admittedly, this is easier said than done. What if they are friends with your friends or part of your family? The same principle applies: minimize your interactions. It may be more challenging, but you are resourceful and can find a way.
Trust me, there will come a time when they are not around, allowing you to relax and be yourself. So, the next time you find yourself in a situation with a difficult person that you cannot avoid, remember these words: DON’T.